To see or not to see me

Like the simple and calm attitude that the poem implicates. Translate it here for all the people I love.

To see or not to see me

   ---- author: Tashi Ram Lot

 
You see, or not to see me.

I am there.

No sorrow, no joy.

You miss, or not to miss me.

Feelings are there.

Not coming, nor leaving. 

 
You love, or not to love me.

Love is there.

Not increasing, nor decreasing.  

You follow, or not to follow me.

My hand is in yours.

Not quitting, nor giving up. 

Come into my embrace,

or let me live in your heart.

Love tranquilly, 

and enchant calmly. 

见与不见

 --扎西拉姆·多多

你见，或者不见我

我就在那里

不悲不喜

你念，或者不念我

情就在那里

不来不去

你爱，或者不爱我

爱就在那里

不增不减

你跟，或者不跟我

我的手就在你的手里

不舍不弃

来我怀里

或者

让我住进你的心里

默然相爱

寂静欢喜

Animal vs. hunter

An animal hided in the forest, and felt so dangerous because of the frequent visits of the hunter. One day, the small animal couldn't stand the hiding, stood out, and asked:" why are you consistently hurting me?" The hunter paused a moment... and said, "I shoot you because ....you look dangerous!" hahahaha...

Take and Give

I seldom admire someone, but the grace words from a lady before the end of her life really touched my heart. I felt not only the calm and grace attitude facing the death, but a strong heart that embraces a lot of loves and also has such a capability to give. A heart that is capable to give makes her last life so beautiful. Many people may be used to take, but seldom think to give. Or may put it a lower priority. Frustration may appear then.

The marriage vows during the wedding are the beautiful wishes for every couple who possess love from the starting point. Yet the glamor may fade as more true colors of life appear. Difference to the dream may produce all types of additional dramas among people. The more you require yourself, the more you want from your love and life. However, you don't want to deny that people do possess love, no matter what.

Maybe, free each other a little bit. Not always think of what you can get, but how much you can give. The hot energies in this world will be exponentially increased (do some math...) hahahaha...The ones with love are always blessed!

Bless the free hearts!

Live in Grace

There is a path to the paradise for everyone. In daily life, we are busy. "So we just work until we die?", as a bee asked in "bee movie". I guess it looks like so. Busy-works make lives, but also may lose yourself.

When you stood among people, you can find that some faces are cheerful because of promotion, love, or youthful innocence, and some faces are light-less because of burden, work, or broken heart? What do you want to look like? An energetic and charming person? Only the appearance attraction to cheer up people's eyes like the role of a celebrity or super model, or just a moment of enchanting for yourself?

Once upon for a time, we are educated to be grace. We need walk stably without peeking, we need eat quietly, and we need to talk slowly without loud laugh. There is a picture for the little ones that something wonderful in their mind. What are "the wonderful" things and how "wonderful"? Always unlimited imagination space to lead you work for it.

I am fascinated in the essence instead of superficies. People are easy entertained by eyes, and beautiful things are lovely. However, I questioned how much happiness and satisfaction A GRACE OUTSIDE can bring to people. Anything has double sides. The most beautiful face is usually the one wearing the enchanting smile from inside to outside. However, THE GRACE INSIDE needs a strong heart.

I don't want to say, hi, let's live in grace, no matter what happened in your life. Everything can be easy to say than done. I just want to say that, when you lose yourself in life, remember to strive for grace.

Fun song

Had a glance of glee show last night. Impressive a beautiful song they sang. Found out that it's Train's "Hey, soul sister". Good to see youthful energy from the choir. Here is the link for glee's version: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-Ysqz_sMU0
Just don't understand one thing: how could the feeling to soul sister be comparable to a virgin to Madonna. Guess I got culture gap here. hahahaha...

Attitude to Life

Rather moody these days. Guess I can put my thoughts and views into a drama if I like. Still, the words here can only be the abstract and summary words. Usually, when such words means (1) a wise, (2) no time to write out the whole story, or (3) something that's better not to say directly. Guess I can never be a wise, but want to write something which is actually rather scattered.

I experienced a bunch of things in the last month. In addition to attending two meetings, I visited back to China after so many years. A lot of feelings especially when I saw my family. Met my old classmates and friends. Saw many faces and new phenomenon.

Then I'm back. Put aside the feeling about back to China now. I want to only ask one question here: what's the people pursuing in their life?

When I tried to cheer for the constructive future for my classmates during one of our dinning meetings, one of high school classmate stood up and said: let's be happy once we live one day. My high school teacher said, we live for our families now when we're in forties. I guess I carried such questions until today when I'm back. When I sat alone by myself at my office, my work room, I actually don't want to say the cheerful words during the dinning meeting ---"let's do something meaningful to everyone of us, to this society, and to our next generation...", I just want to ask myself which is hidden in the corner of my heart, what do you want for your life?

Guess the best ending is to stop here.

Copy a poem that I read before

Love a sad poem that I read long time ago (http://www.rpi.edu/~jix/disclaimer.html), and copy it here.

The furthest distance in the world

Translated by muyv

The furthest distance in the world
Is not between life and death
But when i stand in front of you
Yet you don't know that I love you

The furthest distance in the world
Is not when i stand in font of you
Yet you can't see my love
But when undoubtedly knowing the love from both
Yet cannot be together

The furthest distance in the world
Is not being apart while being in love
But when plainly can not resist the yearning
Yet pretending you have never been in my heart

The furthest distance in the world
Is not (you have never been in my heart)[1]
But using one's indifferent heart
to dig an uncrossable river
for the one who loves you